Well, the simple answer is "I started dating kitanzi.
In truth, I realized in retrospect that I'd always been inclined towards it, but I never had a context by which such a thing was possible. When I started to meet polyfolk like telynor and tigerbright, I looked at it somewhat wistfully but said it wouldn't work for me (and it *wouldn't* have with my partner at the time.) When that partner and I split up, and I got involved with Kit, I was finally free to explore the idea to it's fullest potential.
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Date: 2008-09-17 07:54 pm (UTC)Well, the simple answer is "I started dating
In truth, I realized in retrospect that I'd always been inclined towards it, but I never had a context by which such a thing was possible. When I started to meet polyfolk like