My work tonight.....
Jul. 18th, 2005 11:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
poltr1....was to begin looking at how I carry and present myself. Is there something I'm consciously or unconsciously doing that brings out the verbal assassins I seem to encounter in my life? What is my inner saboteur doing to aid and abet these people?
I need to develop my quiet confidence. I don't need to strut around with my chin in the air and a chip on my shoulder. That's just not me. But I do want to exude a "don't fuck with me" attitude so that people who are inclined to do so have second thoughts about crossing my path.
And maybe that's been my problem all along. Some people see me as an easy mark, a pushover, someone to trifle with. It's time to say "not any more."
Heard a great quote about bears the other day. A bear has the strength to kill a man....but often chooses to not do so.
I need to develop my quiet confidence. I don't need to strut around with my chin in the air and a chip on my shoulder. That's just not me. But I do want to exude a "don't fuck with me" attitude so that people who are inclined to do so have second thoughts about crossing my path.
And maybe that's been my problem all along. Some people see me as an easy mark, a pushover, someone to trifle with. It's time to say "not any more."
Heard a great quote about bears the other day. A bear has the strength to kill a man....but often chooses to not do so.
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Date: 2005-07-20 02:34 am (UTC)You're right; I believe I project or superimpose lots of things onto people I see around me every day. Certain things or traits trigger previous experiences or encounters in my life. I need to be more aware of this when I'm doing this, even unconsciously.
Thank you for the kind words! I'm trying to be a more positive force in this world. Some days I am, and some days I'm not.